Do you have friends that post on Facebook, all day long, but fail to return your phone call or text? .. They are fake-Facebook friends … not real friends.  You might be tolerating disrespect. Do you have people in your life that don’t call when they...

We all have good and evil in each of us.  The thoughts that we mediate will determine whether we feed evil actions or good actions.  But what if, we get stuck and flip-flop between good and evil?  I would describe that as purgatory, a place...

What or who do we let waste our time and why?  Does your Facebook persona match who you really are and how you see yourself?  Numerous studies are proving that Facebook can create sadness or depression.  Why?  Perhaps we compare ourselves to the greener grass...

Do you feel like Superman but when you get around technology it turns into kryptonite? Do you become weak and frustrated?  Do you sometimes feel powerless over technology? Do you need organization? Tamara has found the antidote to cure you! Do you have more than ten...

Have you ever set the same goal, year after year with no success? Did you achieve your 2017 goals? Setting a goal means making a decision, which is to cut off all other options. The problem is most people are not making decisions they are articulating...

Cold Calling is Super Effective…if you know what you are doing!  What I can’t understand is why so many companies emphasize prospecting (cold calling) aka making new friends :), when the majority of companies I consult with don’t even ask their current clients (people that...

I believe that minimalism is an infectious disease today.  It is descripted as a mentality of “what’s the least I can do and still get by.” It is a mentality of “have to” verses “get to”; it is a disease of the mind, the spirit,...

#1- Don't “tell” people what you can “ask” them!  To increase performance, the first step would be to start asking instead of telling.  It’s the difference between someone “having” to do something, or them “wanting” to do something.  It’s the old “have to” vs. “get to”...

  How to Stop Procrastinating  (starting tomorrow) Procrastination, the opposite of making a "Decision," is a common enemy of us all.  Without mastering decision-making we may, over time, become skilled in what we despise: procrastination.   I like to think of procrastination as just "postponed decisions," but it’s been proven...

There is a difference between “having” to do something and “getting” to do something.  It’s the gap between cooperation and compliance.  It is the difference between a leader and a manager. It is accountability vs. micro managing, and it is the difference between success and...

Have you heard the good news!  If you are in sales and you “don’t believe in cold calling” you might be losing out on a lot of money.  Too many sales gurus say that cold calling is dead and the truth is they just don’t...

“Sabotage” means: to deliberately destroy. Turn mistakes into miracles I think sabotage really means “excuses.” We say we want something but our actions don’t support what we desire; therefore, we are not congruent with who we are. Unless we can make our “unconscious mind” be in...

"A joyful heart makes a cheerful face, but when the heart is sad, the spirit is broken.  The mind of the intelligent seeks knowledge." (Proverbs 15:13-14)  A yoga teach once told me that if you can't smile and breath at the same time while in a pose,...

Wouldn’t it be great if there were just a pill to take to make us get more done?  Here is the good news!  There is a way to actually max out at your potential and a way to actually become the best version of yourself,...

How do you pick up the 5000-pound phone? You first must want to learn how to be good at it, then have the confidence to learn the right way to do it. If you don’t want to do it, chances are you will make excuse...

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